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Preface:
My discord is @Drunkanddriving if you have any questions

Hi I’m Sabrina, some of you may have known me as Yvonne back in 2021, I was a menace to the community but I like to think I've grown as a person and will prove that eventually hopefully. The purpose of this document is to lay out the heinous actions of prominent community member FNM04, someone who has a history of doing bad things (banshee situation) as well as continuing to do so to this day. He is a sexual deviant, borderline predator, manipulator with machiavellian tendencies and emotional abuser, he lovebombed me into thinking he cared for me and then abandoned me after he got sexual satisfaction from me. I plan on painting a pretty vivid picture of the reprehensible person that Fin is and prevent him from doing this in the future.


My side of the story:

I met Fin in the beginning of November through a mutual group of friends, he approached me in dms to say that he enjoyed calling with me in the group call we had just been in and asked to see some of my GD levels, we hit it off and spent the rest of the night talking and getting close pretty quickly, eventually leading to it heading in a very sexual direction, we exchanged nudes and talked dirty, after the fact he told me that he would be there for me forever and that he would never abandon me. To explain why this is fucked up and will be more fucked up I have to give some background on myself, I am extremely mentally ill, I suffer from diagnosed schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, borderline personality disorder, avoidant personality disorder, social anxiety, C-PTSD and severe abandonment issues, something that I shared with him in great detail, in fact warning him to not get too close to me at the risk of me hurting him or getting obsessive and clingy, something that he accepted the risk of and made the previously mentioned promises.

The following weeks of our friendship were very up and down, for the first week we continued to call for prolonged periods of time, sharing vulnerabilities and fears and getting to know each other on a very deep level, getting to the point where he shared some of his previous actions and sexual patterns, illustrating that he has some extremely fucked up kinks and inclinations that he absolutely acts on. After about a week of constant affection and attention he pulled back hard, becoming cold and consistently telling me that he just wasn’t feeling social, around this time I had a full scale mental breakdown and attempted to take my own life leading to a 5 day stint in the psych ward, when I returned the cold attitude remained but the promises of attention and reciprocation also stayed, at one point much earlier telling me that he loved me, the piling stress of being told one thing and then showed another led me to confronting him on his behavior and asking if he truly felt that way about me, to which he told me that he only said those things because he was horny and “thinking with his dick,” I was justifiably upset at this and spiralled very hard, to which he told me that he didn’t want to deal with this and that he’d block me if I continued to message him, despite me being mid breakdown over the things he said, thanks to help from my friend icedcave I was able to clear my head and organize my thoughts, telling Fin that night that I could no longer be his friend or talk to him but that i wanted to be cordial around our friends. Fin responded to this by essentially blaming me for being too clingy and insulting me before blocking me without apology.

In response to all of this messaged him on an alt telling him that I would release all of this including the terrible things he’s done in the past if he did not unblock me and apologize for his behavior and take accountability, because he has a pattern of this. Fin responded to all of this by threatening me with the fact that he knew my address and had my nudes, to which I responded with the knowing his address despite not actually knowing his address, we argued for a while before agreeing to “mutually assured destruction” and leaving each other be, after the fact fin deleted all of our dms together and I did the same, not before screenshotting his worst actions though

The next day I joined a group discord server and was informed that one of the members had a problem with me over “doxxing their friend,” a friend whom I found out was Fin, I confronted him on the matter as well as sent proof of his actions to the people who were involved, Fin freaked out in a major way, first begging me to not release all of this, moving to threatening to doxx me, then telling me that he would file a police report on him for “extortion” something that has no legal backing at all and was flat out ridiculous, he also mentioned that he had discussed swatting and telling my parents about all of this, once I rebuked him and laid out that he had no legal grounds for any of this he threatened multiple times to commit suicide in order to get me to not release things, after this he moved to insulting me, claiming that I hurt everyone around me and that my previous exes (from years ago) were banking on my suicide attempt being successful, he continued attempting to emotionally diminish me by calling me evil and saying that he viewed me as subhuman, throughout all of this refusing to see his part in any of this, viewing himself as a victim who was being sadistically tortured, at one point threatening to find the mental hospital I had stayed at tell them that I was driving people to suicide, after this he jumped to saying that he was concerned for my wellbeing and that I was acting erratic, very desperately jumping from manipulation tactic to manipulation tactic. I’m sure that there are some other smaller things that I’m leaving out but I’m reasonably very overwhelmed at all of this and just don’t want him to be allowed to do this to anyone else


Psychosexual fantasies:

Fin has some very interesting sexual interests, telling me during a conversation that he feels like he “needs” to find partners to engage in extremely disturbing roleplays and sexual acts with even if he were dating someone, his sexual interests range from zoophilia, cub, harming others physically, torture and a range of other messed up things, after he is done pushing people past their comfort zones into doing these things he leaves them out of shame or some other thing that I do not understand, I believe that because of these interests and patterns, along with his large platform that he is a danger to the community.